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Other than maths , I'd yawn at other course books in less than 5 mins . This time I managed to keep a HIGH record of 1 hour . *CLAP CLAP*
Fattie also finally transferred pictures from chalet and Cal's bdae to my thumbdrive . All that is left is 600++ pics from Yusrina's camera . Once I've gathered all , I'll post them up asap ! Of cos not all of them la .. There's probably 1000 pics . LOL ! :D
Speaking of which , I always type "fattie" as Jia Yi in my posts now . I wonder if when I'm 50 yrs old , reading the archives , will I remember who's "fattie" ? She may become slim in time to come .
Or probably we won't be contacting anymore ? When we graduate , we'll choose our own paths . Probably , different ones ? Then again . We talk bout friendship . How strong / stable is our friendship ?
Friendship , in my opinion , is classified under 2 sub-groups . Those casual ones ( including hi-bye friends ) , and those sincere type( including long-term ones , went through lots of thick and thins , hot and cold ) . Ok the hot and cold one is a type-for-the-sake-of-making-the-sentence-looks-longer . HAHAHA !!
I remembered during last semester's lecture , I asked Cal and fattie , what are their views of friendship . Oh ya ! I hardly go to lecture . I go to that particular lecture is cos' the cher's an ang moh . He's humourous and fun , somehow , he made me like that module .
I don't know why , but for me , I must like the teacher , to like what he's teaching . If he's those damn guai lan one , I'd probably just skip his lesson . What for go there waste time see his lan jiao bin ? I know it's not good as in the end , it's our loss for not gaining more knowledges . But I just can't accept it . Luckily I got one full-time one-to-one lecturer . MR CALVIN L** W*** C**** .
Ok back to topic . I only wrote one short question "How do you view friendship?". Cal wrote me a compo of 200+ words , 3/4 page of my lecture notes , fattie worse still .. A page , every single corner is her words , feelings . I'll be typing them out , but I won't tell you which conversation belongs to who , so as to protect them . Don't ask me protect what . Just protect them . OK ?
Me : How do you view friendship ?
Cancer :
-Negative ( being made use of ? )
Sometimes friendship feels like a weightage of how useful one is . Eg. I'm going to be-friend you because you will contribute positively to my selfish needs , whereby I won't care if you'll die helping me . You MUST help me because we are friends , because you should care for me .
-Positive ( An emotional pillar )
We are bound to make mistakes in choices we make . Soon , we found ourselves useless and helpless , feeling lost and confused . That is when a friend can help by just being there , listening and providing a supporting hand , saving you from despair .
Me : With regards to (Negative ) , what if I say only the strongest survive , will you still help your friends ?
Cancer : In general , everyone is unique and strong in his/her own . Eg , I may be good at computers , but suck at social stuffs , while you're just the 180 degrees of me . In this sense , you "need" me , and I " need" you . At least , you'll need me till we graduate . And then uncertainity drives in . But , people come and go . I'll give in as much as I can , until I find myself being in the disadvantage . This is a tricky situation between being righteous and plain silly .
Me : With regards to ( Positive ) , if he/she betrays you , would you still be there if he/she needs you ?
Cancer : It all depends . People do make mistakes . Logic VS Feelings . Does he/she deserves it(the forgiveness) ?
In conclusion , Friendship = comfort level . The more comfortable I am to trust myself with you , the stronger our friendship . It's all about balance . Too much reliance , the friend may feel irritated .
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Me : What's your view of friendship ?
Sagittarius : I don't know . To me , friendship is separate into 2 categories . Real friends and fake friends .
Real friends
-Be there fore each other
-Say out things to each other WITHOUT MUCH restrictions ( yeah I know everyone has got their own dirty secrets to keep )
-Always stand by each other ( if because of small issues then don't friend each other , then you can call your friend go die already )
-Respect his/her decision
- If he/she do something which you think is wrong/bad choice , don't just turn your back and walk off , for he/she might need you tomorrow .
- No intention of 利用-ing you ( make use of )
- Some one who won't mind your physical appearance . ( fat , pale , black , short .. )
-Some one who will pick up your call even if its 3am , listen to what you have to say
-Can eat together , shit together , play together , chat together , cry together , sleep together . Basically can do anything together !
Fake friends
-Hi-Bye friends
-Seems to be close to each other , but on the surface nia .
-Actually don't give a damn
-If he/she phone you at 3am and cry at your ears , you confirm will "Wa lau eh ! Damn sian !! Tell me this for what !? Also not my taiji ( problem ) . Get the fuck off la . -_-"
-Basically they don't care much .
Me : Would you still stay be your friend if they betray you ?
Sagittarius : What kind of betray ?
Me : Backstab , steals your bf/gf ?
Sagittarius :
Backstab - mostly the friendship will become not so stable , not true liao .. Beacuse you will think , will the person backstab you again ..
Steal my bf/gf - NO ! LOL ! I tio this before . Steal bf = Not Good Friend . This world so many guys/girls , why must snatch mine !? KNN !
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Me : Your view for friendship is ?
Virgo : Friendship are being classified as different types . Casual ones and long term ones . If you're a casual friend , of course the main thing is to have fun . On the other hand , a long term friendship requires more concern , understanding and appreciation . For serious friendship , normally they'll go in depth bout their lives rather than just having fun .
Me : So if your long term friend is to betray you , will you stay by his/her side ?
Virgo : No . Betrayal is never a good thing . If it's something serious , you see no reason going back to their side . Eg . Cheat money .
Me : backstab leh ?
Virgo : No .
Me : Steal your gf/bf ?
Virgo : No , cannot accept . Concluison : I cannot take betrayal . Even to the slightest of them .
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Basically I think most of our views are the same . Shit . I don't know how to end this post .
Er .. Let's just hope that everything goes well , we'll graduate together , find goooood husband/wives , marry , have kids , happily ever after . SHIT ! I suddenly got more to add on !
That time me and fattie were talking about how we're going to buy houses just side by side . So when I'm working she can help me fetch our kids from the kindergarden , or when she's having OT , I'd help her .. Then on weekends , our 2 families will go out and have fun ! :D
But the problem comes in .. What if his husband don't like my husband , or mine does not like his ? It's kinda awkward leh , like we 2 enjoying , shopping , then the 2 guy got totally no topics to talk about .. Hais .. It's so hard to have happily ever after leh ..
This post shall end abrubtly with a video of Miga's Kung Fu's flying kick !
Vitamin C - Graduation
LOVE THE VID!!!